The best dating apps for relationships in 2022

The key to dating is to approach it like you’d approach any other social interaction. First, you need to put yourself in a position to have the best conversation possible. The most important elements of good conversation: (1) be yourself; (2) be comfortable. Just like in any social interaction, there’s no reason to force yourself to act a certain way, if you’re not comfortable, you’re going to put yourself at a disadvantage when interacting with a new person. That’s why it’s so important to put yourself in a place where you’re confident, comfortable, and knowledgeable.

Being comfortable is an important element of dating as well—because while you don’t have to be uncomfortable at a dinner party, you shouldn’t be too comfortable either. It’s a social interaction, so even if you’re comfortable with the person you’re with, you should still try to maintain a degree of discomfort. People get real comfortable with each other in relationships, but that shouldn’t be the case in the early stages of a relationship.

So, as you’re sitting down to dinner with a new person, try to enjoy it. You’re going to want to have good conversation, and with any luck, you’ll be able to make a good impression. As you do, remember that you want to approach your interactions like any other social engagement. Have a good time—but remember to stay aware.

What You Should Do First

As you’re getting ready, your first focus should be on your appearance. This isn’t a cue that you should pamper yourself, but it should be what you’d consider a „lazy day“ outfit. If you want, you can dress to the nines, or you can have fun with a casual outfit.

You should also have fun with your hair and makeup. Just like you wouldn’t plan to come to dinner looking like a pajama day, you shouldn’t plan to look your best at every dinner date. So go for a fun look and dress comfortably.

If you want, go for a look that shows a bit of personality. If you do that, the person you’re with will be more impressed and a little more interested in spending time with you. If you’re having fun with a look, it adds a little bit of flair to your conversation and makes you seem a little bit more fun, which is attractive.

You should also make sure that you’re prepared for any interactions that
I took out my mom’s old high school yearbook to scan some photos of her friends from the ages of 18-22 (wow, the pre-Internet years). These people aren’t just my friends, some of them are even my ex-girlfriends! But in keeping with the theme of this post, let’s take a look at some of the things I learned from these photos that have helped me evolve over the years. Here they are, the lessons that have most helped me:

Be Wary Of The Overachiever

Achieving goals is an awesome way to get in touch with your inner narcissist. The truth is, you’re probably a little bit of a narcissist, or at least, you’re too perfect for your own good, and you see being an overachiever as a sign of self-awareness. If you’re too busy working hard to succeed and get into a relationship with a cute, smart girl, you’re probably already on the path to an unhappy life.

Keep Self-Expression Clean

If you’re an artist or a musician or something else that has a creative outlet, chances are you’re pretty obsessive about the whole experience. You’re probably worried about if you’re doing it well or not, and you spend a lot of time trying to perfect your work. If you go overboard with this, you probably won’t end up dating a lot of people because everyone will want to help you perfect your work.

Related: 29 Ridiculous Things You Should Always Do In Your Job, But Other People Should Never Do.

Own Your Sperm

I’ve talked about this before and the short version is: you can only fertilize so many eggs before you turn into a bad man. This is especially true if you’ve been in a relationship longer than a year because having lots of sperm is a sign of having awesome sperm. If you hit the big three-and-change, it’s time to act like a grown-up.

Related: 23 Things That Make Women Want To Have Kids

Your Facebook Status Can Tell You A Lot

Having all your „friends“ engage in a little online banter can reveal a ton about you. If you are a douche who has one girlfriend and all your „friends“ are dating loads of people, that could be an indication that you’re a messy fuck.

Do You Have A Crush On That Person?

This point in particular is both obvious and important.

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